Cheer Up, Hubs

So, I've been thinking of taking a break. My hubby is just so stressed up lately, and I just don't know how to cheer him up. His work is piled up to his head, i wished i could just pick up the phone and booked a New Zealand Hotels, fly us there on the next available flight. Ouch, wait a minute. What's worse than a bad holiday? I should really plan a holiday where Hubs could relax and de-stress. Perhaps it's best to book one of the Auckland Hotels near to the city centre, where I should shop and Hubs could chill out in our hotel room. See that pic? That's exactly what I've been dreaming. A nice bedroom view of the yatch harbour.

I've never been to Christchurch, maybe it's good to check out the special offers they have for Christchurch Hotels. Cannot deny that room package can save us a lot of money, I rather splash it on dining. But Chinese New Year is only a week away, I cannot make any plans for now. We'll be home to granny's for the New Year. Auckland or Wellington Hotels can sure wait. New Year is the best gathering of the year, we're not going to miss it. No way.

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where's the card, mr postman?

a surprise mail came for my sister the other day. she got a registered mail for a visa and mastercard pin code, a credit card she never registered for. i can imagine the thoughtfulness of the credit cards issuer, who is kind enough to offer my sister their services without her having to apply for the credit cards, 2 months after her car loan got approved, she has a pretty impressive bank statement i assume.

but the thing is, what do you do with two visa and master pin code, when they forgot to send your the plastic credit cards you're suppose to activate with. we're not talking about a virtual credit card here. hey, we need the plastic version. i wonder if they offered my sister their interest free credit cards they've been promoting a lot recently. oh, i can imagine the letter must be lost somewhere in the post world. that's the shit with our national post service. if they say 3 days, you really can expect your letter to be delivered to your doorstep on day six.

one week has passed, and we're still waiting for the mail to arrive. with the credit cards in it of course.

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don't freakin gimme attitude!

i never had maid issue. that's because i'm a very kind and thoughtful person. i always imagine myself in their shoes. away from home, tryin hard to provide for their family back in indon, earnin 500 ringgit a month, livin under someone else's roof, doin every imaginable task from scrubbin the floor to foldin the laundry.

i'm tryin as hard to make their lives happier workin under my wings. but this mornin, one of the maids chose to show me some color of her face, like i'm in no position to tell her off. she lied to me straight in my face. damn. she walked away half way i was talkin to her. damn. too much.

i pretty much gave her a piece of my mind, the one freakin piece i hate to expose. my ugly side. it rarely has to make an appearance, but when forced, this side of me can scare even a lion away. i summoned both of them close to me, there she stood, 2 metres away from me. i need her to hear me, though i'm by nature a loud person my hubs thought i'm born with an inborn mic somewhere in my throat.

my point is clear. i'll make your life workin here easier, all i want is that you listen to what i said. like it or not, you do this my way. get it? if you prefer otherwise, you can be sure that you pay for your toiletries like shampoo, body shampoo, toothpaste even your sanitary pads. i've been kind enough, so i'm askin that i get my respect.

i lost count how many times she said sorry. but sorry is not the word i'm lookin for. i want US to corporate, like i'm your boss you're my maid. are we clear?

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rent. buy and sell

while other's get their hands on the stock market and currency investment to make the big bucks, i personally think that New York real estate is where the big money is. after all, isn't that how mr. donald ended up so filthy rich? i mean, if you have extra cash in the bank that sits there earning pathetic interest rate, you seriously need a wake up call from me.

though i'm no investment guru, but i sure know one thing. property investment can never go wrong, provided you know where and when the property will bloom. take Florida real estate, the prices of property has increase doubled if not triple fold over the last couple of years, so is the case with Texas real estate.

in the past, i didn't know there are actually those people who can just sit at home but making tonnes of money renting, buying and selling properties. but the picture is clear now, all you need is to get a good real estate agent to monitor your property high and low times, or maybe just to find a good tenant for your penthouse, renting out hot property is part of where the good money comes from.

so, if you got extra cash in the bank, i suppose you know where to make it worth investing.

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you got rice bags hangin under your eyes?

oh, well. my eye lids are heavy. my under eyes felt like it has two rice bags hangin under it. i'm startin to notice this obvious change in my eyes. they are showin signs of panda eyes. i used to laugh at people with panda eyes, thinkin how on earth their under eye can be so fugly. dark and saggy.

please forgive me. don't call this a payback time. i got to run, hit my pillow now. good night, you catch a wonderful sleep too.

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a job with the best incentive

so many people i know are teachers. they might not earn the biggest pay check but their job sure has a lot of incentive that comes with it. first,they work short working hours, secondly, long holidays. they also get good incentive like health and life insurance coverage for not only themselves but their family member as well. furthermore, buying a home as a teacher they are able to get bank loans are super low interest rate.

i'm thinking if i should apply to be a school teacher. i'll be away for half a day at school,i still have half of the day to spend with my family. with so many good incentives, this is a win win situation.

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little heartbreaker

i must really do somethin. my little darlin is gettin more and more attached to the maid nowadays. well, cannot really blame him. the maid has been with us since he was born and has been takin care of him since then. she's pretty much a part of this family, i love her too. she's hardworkin and she has become sort of like our family butler. she can seriously run this house without me.

this afternoon, the maids went to my sister's office for some spring cleanin. when shern and i got home from our afternoon tea, the maid was no where to be seen. after a while, shern started to get all whiny lookin for his maid. how can i call the maid home. what? call her a cab, and get her ass back from the office? no way.

he should be thankful mommy's at home to take care of him. i told him sacrifice goin to work to take care of him. if he doesn't like it this way, mommy will go to work everyday and he can be at home with the maid all day long. he said "OK". my heart shattered.

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trick and trade wine with black currant

my sister came back from Melbourne with two bottles of red wine. in fact, every time my brother or sister come back from Australia, they'll sure purchase either chardonnay or merlot. my family only drinks wine on occasion, not the kind of everyday wine person. except for me, i'm not a liqour, wine or beer person. i can never gulp down a glass of white wine without the crazy after effect. it will make my body itches so badly, i once put on a pair of winter gloves to stop myself from obsessive scratching. having experience lots of ugly wine aftermath, i'll avoid drinking it at all cost.

the one occasion worth mentioning is during the chinese new year, where the ladies will try to bring my uncle down by challenging him drink red wine, but the ladies always trick my uncle by drinking blackcurrant juice themselves. every year, the ladies will sure win. how not to, when one team is on wine and the other team is drinking only blackcurrant juice. can't wait to celebrate this chinese new year, it's just 2 weeks away.

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finding a good web host for your blog

so many mommy bloggers out there are starting their own dot com. while mine is still in progress, well, it has been for quite sometime. i am just too busy to update it right now.
more and more mommy taking up space in this world wide world, yeah, mommy bloggers rule!

so what's the three main factor that get your started? first, purchase a domain name, then select a web design that suits your need. there are plenty of pre-designed templates to choose from. you don't have to be a web professional to do it. lastly and this is the most important point of all, selecting a good and reliable web host. be it for your personal blog or e commerce website, web hosting choice offers a free guide to assist you in getting your own dot com.

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thaipusam holiday

it's thaipusam today, meanin it's a public holiday where i live. thousands of indians will be at batu caves to perform their thaipusam rituals and prayers. as for the rest of us, we get to sleep in late and maybe go shoppin.

wishin all indians a happy thaipusam.

hope your day is a great one.

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a house for a home

it's good to sometimes dream big isn't it? people who has a dream will tend to work harder to achieve their dream, and living it big in reality. my hubs is the sort of man who loves to spend his money on buying nice cars, dream about having a , while i'm more towards the kind of person who long to design my own bungalow house Plans and make it my home.

whatever our indifferences is, i'm sure when the right time comes, we'll settle for a house that is realistic. it sure will not involve us getting into a big fight on whether to settle for a Log Home Plans or a Ranch house plans for where we live, houses normally have contemporary designs, a combination of the modern touch that comes in a variety of designs.

but now, we cannot afford to build our own house yet, unless one morning i wake up to the joy of striking the jackpot, maybe then our dream home will become a reality. as for now, i think we'll be stuck where we are for sometime. but i don't mind it at all, this place is already my home, not just a roof and walls that provides us shelter.

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scrubs and beyond

when i first saw the scrubs sitcom on television, i thought the name was pretty cute. the sitcom has not just captured the heard of many audiences, but it somehow ended as a brand name. oh ya, now you have it. Medical Scrubs uniforms that comes in very simple yet versatile design. Designed by non other than Katherine Heigl's, her new line comes in peaches scrubs, a color that many nurses will love. i mean, keep the blue to the male nurses.

i wish our local hospital can take a peep into these pretty uniforms, rather than sticking to the ugly horrible lime green nursing uniforms that fades into stained green overtime. what's worse is that nurses are not given uniform sweaters or hoodies. why not standardize them, it's really unsightly to see nurses wrapped in their own funky outerwear all the time. Not at all professional i think.

afterall, it is very important for medical staffs to look professional, that doesn't only apply to doctors with white suits right. being professional doesn't mean dressing up the old school way, so why not dress nurses the fashionable way. i love this piece of hoodie, a perfect match for the peaches colored scrub uniform. i wish i can get one for myself, though i'm not a nurse.

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cancer took my grandparents away

i lost my grandpa and my granny to cancer. though i was too young to know how much they suffered before they died, i surely know how much pain our family member has to go through. how my paternal grandma carried on her life without paternal grandpa by her side, and how my maternal granny struggled in poverty without the only breadwinner in the family.

it's scary to say this, but Breast Cancer and Prostate Cancer has become the number one killer in our country. thousands lost their battle to cancer every year. this figure is alarming, but what's more alarming is how people are so taking their own life for granted, they never make it a priority to have a yearly medical checkup until it's too late.

it doesn't always have to end as a sad story. early detection and annual medical check up can save live. most importantly, eat healthy and exercise too. kick off those bad habit of smoking and drinking, as smokers as well as those you love, the second hand smoker are in dead serious risk of getting Lung Cancer. this sounds harsh, but it's true.

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hit my pillow or my eyes?

oh man, just as i walked into the room just now. i suddenly got confused of the reflection of my own face. instead of seein my eyes right away, i cannot help but noticed that my under eye bag has become so so freakin obvious, much more obvious than seein my own eyes. how bad is that?
my cousin said, it will help if i massage my under eyes by lightly hittin it 300 times for like 5 beats per seconds. 300 times on one eyex 2= 600 beats on both eyes.

i don't think i'm that free to do that. furthermore, my hands is not a vibrator and i don't think i can manage 300 beats in10 minutes. i'll just try to hit my pillow 10 minutes earlier every night. well, shame on me. sleepin early is actually one of my high priority new year resolution. 21 days into a whole new year, i failed so far.

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a good thing can last a lifetime

good thing is not cheap, cheap thing is no good. my mother must have told me that a thousand times, she can tell me that another thousand times, but still i cannot refrain myself from buying cheap stuff. you know how dirt cheap some made in china stuffs are. ashtray, fruit peeler, food cover, plastic plate and all for 1 dollar. two weeks later, rust began to appear on my tea strainer, fruit peeler broke into half, food cover's handle came off.

i should have expected it anyway, after all those advise from mom. serve me right yeah. little by little, i became more aware of the things i purchase. though some things might be a little pricey, i'd like to think that it will last me a very long time. especially for dining ware like spoons, fork and knives, also lemon squeezer and tea strainer, where things often get wet, i prefer to go for stainless steel made ones. it is also because rust can cause serious health damage, so better to buy safe than to be sorry.

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i think i might be the next big thing

sometimes, i think i can be one damn good interior designer you know. aha, this is me self-praise again. pardon me, what was my major in university? business and information technology. i don't know which is worse, me now back to the silly old IT illiterate me or me day-dreaming that i could be far better than i now am if i were to choose to major in designing. wishful thinking.

i know i can be annoying sometimes when i can't help commenting to my shopping buddy about things like a chandeliers in a sport-theme boutique or worse, bathroom light fixtures in a so very elegant posh restaurant. what was the designer thinking? that opposite attracts? give me a break.

what appeals to me as a customer is that i'll take note of the interior of a shop before taking a step into it. nice cozy purple couch with a wooden table under a crystal chandeliar is perfect for a country-look theme boutique, but sure not in a soccer shoe shop. do these designers know a thing about light fixtures i wonder?

having said what i said, it still makes me want to walk straight right into sports shop, grab a ladder and some tools, to get rid of the chandelier. ask the manager if i may bring it back home for my living hall. now, please excuse me.

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don't sigh on valentine's day

if you're planning on getting your valentine gifts for your loved ones, now is the time to go check out Coupon Chief, given that international delivery normally takes approximately 2 weeks, you don't want your valentine pressies to arrive at your doorstep even one day late.

if you're planning to get some books for your kids or yourself, make sure you check out barnes and noble with great savings from 50-90%. perhaps a bob the builder book collection will be great for my little boy. maybe i should hint my hubs that i've been eyeing the handbag i saw on Zappo. haha.

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tradin sleep for 5 bucks

ouch, just cannot resist to do write on this. i'd love to go to bed 5 dollars richer even if it means sleep for 5 minutes lesser.

5 dollars here in my country can buy me 2 happy meals from mcdonalds, one for me and one for my little boy.

sleepy but happy!

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a world with a thousand other possibilities

let's have a fair talk here. not all children are born with high intelligence. maybe some are very intelligent, but they do not have a good memory. it's still too tell if my 2 year old son is going to do well in school. like every other parent, also in my sweetest dream, he will be a straight A student.

but if it turns out otherwise, i won't be disappointed either. there are a thousand of things he might be better at. perhaps he's just like his father, whose passion lies with fast cars and huge machineries. only a man like his father owns a fleet of classes in his driving license, from a three-wheeler to the heavy trailer driver license. he has never been a crane driver or a lorry driver but his interest for heavy equipment made him wanting to learn to operate every single machinery available.

as for my son, every time we come across a crane or an excavator, he'll be asking me what does the crane lifts or what is the excavator digging from the ground. maybe then Equipment Operators Certification at ATS Equipment School might be an option to consider. as a mother, i don't see how my son becoming a heavy equipment embarrass me, so long as he has passion for his job and it makes him happy, i'll be proud of him.

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the 25 useless sheeps

it's gettin late. i'm feelin tired.

you know why? i found myself awake at 5am this mornin when my little son called me for his milk. so in a split second, i made him 5ounces of milk and try to go back to sleep but i just don't feel sleepy anymore.

i don't know if this sheep countin works, but i think it's a totally stupid thing to do. well, i did count to 25 sheeps afterall. but 25 sheeps after, i found myself even more alert than before.

twist and turn, roll and flipped. on my back and on my tummy. i tried to position myself as comfortable as possible, so that it'll be easier for me to sleep, but when i looked at the clock and it reads 8.30am! i woke up feelin like a floatin mermaid.

sleepin has never been more difficult, now i understand how hubs feel when he needs his quiet bedtime. i promise i'll leave him alone to doze off from now on.

now i need to catch up on my sleep. night night for now.

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win big this chinese new year

oh, can't believe chinese new year is just another 2 weeks away. how time flies. it was like only yesterday we celebrated 2007 chinese new year. this coming new year will be the same as the previous years, a gathering of uncles, aunties and grandchildren in my hometown.

highlight of our new year celebration are the reunion dinner where a huge varieties of food will be served to over 50 people in our family. then for the next couple of days, everyone, from young to the old ones will try their new year luck on winning some money on the mahjong, rummy, blackjack and poker game.

i cannot remember a year where i win any money. be it a 10 dollar or a hundred dollar. i wonder if my uncle polished his blackjack game skill beforehand at the online blackjack casino. if he can win playing blackjack with the latest hi-tech software, it's no surprise that every year he beat the rest of us flat.

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the man that matters

i dated many bastards, some cheated on me, some promised me romantic getaway to Mediterranean Europe with five star Malta Hotels suite and whatnot. those bastards ended up as my ex because i wasn't willing to give myself to them, so what did they do? one cheated right behind my back, went on vacation with a hot chick at some Cyprus Hotels while i was at home worried sick with his sudden disappearances. useless chicken.

i believe everything that happened in my life has a purpose, to make me stronger and brighter. everything is in God's hand, there's no way i can do things better with this brain that i have. i'm not the brightest person on earth. i was a young and naive girl, thank God, sweet talk just didn't appeal much to me. you know, they only want to get you to bed at the end of the day. .

i'm so thankful for my wonderful hubs. though he's not the most out-going person, romantic and richest man on earth, it doesn't matter. so whether or not we get to spend our holiday or honeymoon half way around the globe in one of the many fabulous Crete Hotels facing the Mediterranean Sea, munching smelly cheese and sipping red wine, i know he'll be there when i need him.that's all that matters to me.

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245 links in 2 mths

this is unbelievable! blogginginmypyjamas now has 245 links as per stated by technorati. i remembered when i started this blog, no one is willing to link me up, i was so damn good at blog hoppin for link exchange, but i ended up with like 5 links.

now i'm telllin you, link exchange is a shitty job. it's worse than beggin for money, cos you merely link someone up for the sake of linkin eventhough their blog is full of shit not of your interest.
the secret is with linky love chain tag. you pass a link love tag out to, say 5 bloggers, 5 other bloggers passed it down to another25, 25 becomes how many..i lost count.

so if you're thinkin of exposing your blog to the world and get noticed, linky tag is the way to do it. trust me. getting 245 cannot get any easier than this.

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is this for a booty call? no!

as a female and also a wife, i honestly think that sex is not a taboo subject. sex should be something husband and wife enjoy together. you might think it's easy for me to say this out loud because my hubs has no sex-related problem. but i honestly don't see the point of a man suffering in silence, just because a wife is not considerate enough to listen and to help deal with the problem.

as a matter of fact, most women prefer to think that viagra is the blue pill men take when he's on a booty call. that is not true at all. as a man aged, when he's on a high stress level, or when he has medical health condition, getting a balance amount of sex life in a marriage suddenly become a task not a pleasure. a relationship between a husband and wife should count more than just a man popping in a viagra pill for a better sex life.

be sure though, that your source of viagra is from an trusted source even if you make purchase through pfizer viagra online. beware of fake viagra as it is dangerous, and the side effect may be harmful.

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why are there lizards in my mailbox?

everytime i hear the postman or see the postman drop the mail off at the mailbox, i'll get my maid to get it instead of getting it myself. why? because i hate the mailbox that comes together with this house. don't get me wrong, but a built in mailbox? one that has lizards residing in there, and flipped every time you stretched your hands in to get your mail. if the next house we're going to purchase has such a lousy mailbox, i'll pass.

why is it so difficult for house developers to provide a classic mailbox? the red box with a tiny door? i'm sure posh houses comes with beautiful Keystone Mailbox, but not where i now live. bleh.fine. i'll pay to get my home a decent pretty looking Gaines Mailboxes, one that will make the postman takes longer to drop the mails, all because he loves my mailbox a little too much. what about that?

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get a loan without a payslip

in the newspaper today, i read about how the private banking sector are trying to help hawkers and small entrepreneurs to apply for home loan without the need for payslip prove. they will be accessed on-site based on their business turnover, even if they are just a hawker with a chicken rice stall.

with this big implementation, we can foresee many entrepreneurs taking up personal with good loan repayment terms. it's a good thing that now people with previous bad credit loans are able to get back on their feet financially. hopefully, this will help them rebuild their financial status.

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down the aisle dangling with gold accessories

the one thing that we chinese cannot do without in a wedding ceremony is presenting the bride with gold accessories. especially for the bride's parents, buying gold accessories for their daughter has become a tradition for decades. it somehow portrays that the brides family is wealthy enough to present gold as gift and thus, they earned the respect from the bridegrooms family member. especially in the case where the bride is married into a wealthy and well-known family.
for decades, gold remains as the main valuable gift, though the idea of earning respect through these gold-gifts has long been abandoned. in fact, these precious items then became the family keepsake that is passed from generation to generation, with some dated back to great great-grandparents wedding gifts. now gold fetch a very high price in the market, soaring record breaking price, those with lots of gold can guarantee a good selling price now.

my mom is just one of the many traditional chinese woman who treasures her wedding gold, she will never sell it away no matter how. she even mentioned to us that she would like her wedding gold to be in the family keepsake and not to be trade-away. with something that holds such significant history, mom's gold accessories is sure going to be in our family for a very long time.

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our fantastic weekend

wohoo..

what a fantastic weekend for us. we had a party, my twin sis and her boyfriend came home for the weekend and we went shoppin too. we had lotsa food, and oh, big apple doughnuts.. we also bought quite a few nice gap tees for the kids. you know new clothes is one of the highlights during chinese new year celebration, with kids paradin around the house in their new outfit.

oh ya, lynd bought the kids ben-10 collar tees from singapore, and it cost 25 dollars each! i think it's very pricey for a cartoon network brand. how sweet of lynd, she just want the boys to be happy.

my internet speed is so stressin me out lately, so this is goin to be a quick post. hope your weekend was a great one too. catch up with ya tomorrow alright.

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the 8 dollars eyeglasses deal

we were on our way home the other day, when hubs told me he might need a pair of spectacles as his vision is getting worse now compare to last year. an eyeglasses will definitely help with his vision especially if he's driving at night.



i've found just the perfect deal for him, a $ 8 Complete Prescription Eyeglasses + Case at Great Discovery: www.ZenniOptical.com. with huge selections of frames and lenses, this is no doubt one of the greatest deal anyone can get on the internet.

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chinese just love gold

my twin sister came home from Singapore for the weekend, also to celebrate our baby nephew's old year old birthday. we were at sunway pyramid today, shopping for a present for baby Dylan. with Chinese New Year just weeks away, the mall practically turned into chinatown, with red bright lantern and dangling little gold rats decoration everywhere.

Chinese are very auspicious people, and this year being the rat year, chinese just love to decorate their house with gold rats, hoping that this new year with bring good fortune. i'm not a big fan of rats, real or fake, so i'll just stick to decorating my home with some ang-pow packets stapled together.

we didn't manage to get anything for dearest nephew, so we'll just go the traditional way, with a red packet. after all, money and gold are the best keepsake for a child's future, you know it'll always have value.

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hubs needs a CD too

so my hubby might not be so willing to sit upright in front of the pc to listen to a lecture on how to be more romantic. i totally understand that. i'm no taking any chances, so am i not brilliant to get him a copy of the subliminal messages for him to play while he's driving. he spend a lot of time outside working and travelling, i believe this cd will surely helps.

it claims to 100% work by sending positive affirmations direct to the subconscious mind, bypassing the more critical conscious mind. i can imagine when he's stuck in a traffic jam, he'll have a very good pal he can listen to. thank you buddy for helping.

chances are you might have seen free subliminal downloads, but most of the time, free downloads are plain rubbish. Good things don't come free, you know that. but at http://www.subliminal-audio.com/ , all subliminal cds are guaranteed to be an episode of life-changing experience. now, you can get your cd delivered to you for free regardless of where you are for just $19.90 plus you get a free mp3 version.

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i need this 8 dollar

i told myself i'm goin to bed before the stroke of midnight, but somethin in me think otherwise. i'm grabbin some money here before i go to bed, hopefully 8 dollars richer if my post get auto-approved 10 seconds after i submit it for approval.

i need the money. chinese new year is coming, the tradition of red packet is still here to stay, not like those fireworks that was banned about 10 years ago. red packets for at least 50 kids, this 8 dollar will come handy, 30 days later.

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i need to get hubs this cd

he's a man of few words. he's a man who seldom shares his thoughts and rarely has anything sweet to say to me. do i know him at all before i married him? yes, i do. for the name of love, we're still together. but sometimes i cannot help but wonder if he appreciates me at all? for being a wife that obeys him like he's a commander. yes, i do love and respect him that much.

at the end of the day, a woman sometimes longs for affection, a little romantic gesture or at least, some nice words to hear. this coming valentine's day, i might not be getting a bouquet of roses, or a champagne that awaits me at a candle lit dinner. but i am itching to get him some subliminal CDs from http://www.subliminal-cds.com/ , one on 'becoming romantic' and 'total marriage success'.

hopefully, he'll learn to appreciate me more, be more expressive and bond us together. this is a perfect valentine gift, one that might change your love life for good.

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where there is no internet

you know even with this thing call wireless internet, you cannot possibly have access internet every single place you go. places like a fisherman's village, or when you're on a cruise where internet connection cost a bomb.

what if you're going to a place such as Myammar where about 90% of the internet content are banned by their government? you are on a business trip and you really need to show your client how your company operates online and there, your webpage cannot be loaded. worse if you are suppose to do an online presentation.

suddenly, you feel the whole world collapse in front of you. does it not defeat the purpose of you travelling hours on the plane and ended up in disappointment? it doesn't have to be like that. with 3 simple click, you can now perform an entire website download. by entire, i mean all images, sounds & video just as how it should be loaded on the internet.

this tool is fast becoming important to corporate organisation who didn't want to risk losing up a business deal all because of a lousy internet connection. check out http://www.web-site-downloader.com/ for more features on what website downloader can do for you.

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bored

today is a public holiday. on a day like this, we prefer to stay home than to beat the crowd at shoppin mall. moreover, with my anti-shoppin hubs that will never even drive near a mall, home is the only place to look for us on a holiday.

so, here i am. bored!

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file recovery as easy as ABC

ever caught in a situation where you accidentally deleted a very important file in your computer? what makes it worse is when that file contains months of effort of hard work and endless hours on the computer. i couldn't possibly describe my anger my frustration when i lost my final year dissertation 3 days before it was due submission.

i cannot recall what i did wrong when all of a sudden, my file got lost in the thin air. well, it must have been the evil work of the computer virus. for the next three days, i has sleepless night trying to re-do the entire dissertation. imagine squeezing a 10,000 words report i took almost half a year to complete in just 3 days. thank God, i passed though the result was quite disappointing. a lost file almost cost me my honours degree.

if only there's such a thing like file recovery back then. i would have passed the dissertation with flying colors. if you're ever caught in a situation like mine, remember that you can now recover your deleted files at http://www.file-saver.com/ as easy as ABC.

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no more waiting time

for a year now, i've been sending my friend in United States her medical prescription via post. she claimed that it's impossible for her to get the medication she need there. moreover, it's much more expensive. Sending her medicine via post usually takes about 2 weeks for the medicine to get to her. sometimes it's not worth the waiting, because the medicine cannot get to her on time.

perhaps it's wiser to get her prescription from online pharmacy, they have a wide selection of medicine available online 24/7. with next day delivery, this is going to save her a lot waiting time, not to mention the expensive postage half way across the globe.

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girls out loud on labiaplasty

i was watching girls out loud on youtube, the episode where she went to the plastic surgeon for a consultation on getting her nose job. they somehow ended up discussing the female cosmetic surgery vaginal rejuvanation procedure, and all of a sudden, she burst out laughing like it's the funniest joke on earth.

as a matter of fact, thousands of women has opted for Labiaplasty in the past years, all for a better sex life. in some severe cases, labia can cause discomfort during intercourse as the excessive skins rubs against a man's penis.

this once-never-heard-of reconstructive surgery has helped many female regained their sex life, is has also fast become a common procedure. what matters most is getting a certified and experience surgeon to perform the life-changing procedure, someone like Drs' John R. Miklos and Robert D. Moore, the world's renowned urogynecology and Reconstructive Vaginal Surgerion.

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like it or not, PR is still the king

every blogger i know is very unhappy with the recent page rank change to their blogs. in the world wide web, a page rank is all so important. the higher one's rank is, the better the ranking in their search return. and not forgetting, the good money that comes with it. to sum it all up, page rank is still the king of the internet. the smaller the digit, the better it is.

while most people gets busy exchanging links and comments, all in the name for a good page rank, some worked in different ways to boost their sites. for instance, generate revenues through affiliates programs like those available on most blogs such as casino affiliate programs and shopping buys. affiliates is not just about a flashing banner, it's a money making tool if you know how to.

some bloggers i know can have as many as 5 blogs, hoping that one fine day, these blogs will rise from the dead and claim the throne, and money will come rolling in their way. wish you luck.

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IP is not just a number

sometimes it's scary to know that who is out there reading your blog, secretly placing all the tiny bits and pieces of information together like a jigsaw puzzle. and then one day, out of the clear blue sky, they appear at your doorstep, and deliver you the most amazing bouquet of roses. oh, a secret admirer that is.

but i prefer to think that all my reader will enjoy reading my blogs without any bad intention that is. i do make it a priority not to expose too much personal information on this www, for safety reasons. but what happen if a little information like the IP address became the main culprit? through one's IP address, one can track down the my personal detail and launch an attack to my computer. i hate to think about the consequences.

time to hide your hide IP address with http://www.hide-my-ip-address.com/ . it helps you re-route all your internet traffic through at least 2 ultra fast and safe server. no one will be able to track you in any ways. blog and surf anonymously, safe and sound.

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window shoppin and dinin @ sp

erm, what an evening.

my sister, a friend, our cousin and i went to subang parade for shoppin then dinner at tgif. oh, i forgot, marcus came along with us too. we went there at half past eight, after i put my little darlin to bed. and for the first time in 2008, i heard chinese new year song. cny is only a month away, before we know it, we'll be packin our bags and head home to granny's. only that granny passed away 7 years ago. but still, all of us still go home to that same old house every year, the biggest gathering of the year.
i wanted to get shern some nice cny clothes, but i didn't see any thing i like, or either it's too expensive. another day maybe.

i think i stuffed myself a little too much at tgif, and now i'm all bloated right up to here. ::pointin to my neck::

no one wants to go home to granny FAT. fat is the only compliment we hate to get. you know when people are so sarcastic, they go, "wow..you're living a good life eh?" all ballooned up?
piss off!

i really did control my diet for the last couple of weeks, and lose 2 kgs. i think i've gained it all back tonight at tgif. why thank God it's friday when it's not even friday and all they served are fatty food. oh, the fettuccine alfredo is the worst i had in years. hey, buddy chef..go easy on the parmesan. it made us want to puke after that. the four of us didn't even finish a quarter of it. what a waste.

all of us got home with a broader waist. my sister put on the belly dance dvd for us to 'shake' the parmesan off our waist. i thought belly dance is a piece of cake, hell no. we couldn't even get the first basic step right. the front and back butt shaking . 10 minutes later, we gave up, with the parmesan still 'stickin' firmly to our waist.

what was i thinkin, i am not suppose to feast, i'm on a diet but i just did.

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what's the fuss, cheapskate parents?

school reopens. as promised, the government subsidies all school students with textbooks. in the past, text books were given out on a year loan basis and priorities were given to students with not so well do parents. now, parents only need to pay for their extra curricular fees and some workbooks for their kids, i cannot believe some parents actually complaint about that. why is it that buying own children's workbook and paying for their extra curricular activities has suddenly become a burden to them. cheapskate.

think on the brighter side, the government has spent so much on your kids, and why can't you thank them instead. i like to think that the fees i pay for my kids will somehow ended up being used to maintain the school especially the most emphasis point, the toilet.

fees contribution by parents can perhaps be used to purchase School Lockers so that kids won't have to carry their 7kg bookload to school everyday. i really like the idea of western schools where each student is given a Metal Locker for a minimal fee.

as for the extra curricular activities, many school lacks proper exercise facilities, some doesn't not even have proper gym or play court for kids, let alone a decent Gym Lockers. i truly believer that if parents are more considerate in donating and giving back to the school, it will make it a lot easier for the students to progress both academically and in sports.

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the Subliminal Power's secret exposed

do you believe that Subliminal Power can transform your life for good? i was skeptical until i read one of the many testimonials on http://www.subliminal-power.com/ , one said it helped her lose weight, and she didn't even know how it that some flashing positive affirmations around your computer screen can make your brain worked. now, i'm 100% sure it works as it claimed.

i have so many pounds i need to shed to get back to my pre-pregnancy weight. it's been two years and i'm still struggling. i've tried countless of diet but my weight only fluctuates back like a yoyo. everytime i stepped on on my weighing scale, i see a number i didn't like. one of by biggest weakness is i love to snack in between meals and i wished i can overcome that.

subliminal CDs has changed many lives overnight. It's amazing how some flashing positive affirmation can influence one's thoughts, their emotions, their habits, their inner thought processes. suddenly it felt that i have hope again. not only with losing weight, but it also claim back the self esteem that i need, to feel good about myself. you wanna come join me?

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am i weird?

Arlene of mid life dancing tagged me on 7 weird things about me. me as in shern's mom, not babyshern. this is my blog i write about myself and other things besides baby shern.

- Write 7 weird things about you
- Link back to the one who tagged you
- Tagged 7 others and inform them that they are tagged.

what's weird about me? let me see.
1. i'm a lefty, but when i see a lefty writes, i still thinks it looks weird. you know, the angle they write and how words came out in the opposite direction.

2. my right eye is slightly bigger than my left eye, it is especially obvious if i wake up with puffy eyes.

3. i am very picky when it comes to food. i will not eat anything slimmy or dodgy looking like squid, sea cucumber, raw food, even fish with snake-like scales.

4. i never like to brush my hair.

5. i find licking your spoon is the grossest thing, especially when it comes to sharing food. if you ever dipped your spoon into that dish, i ain't eating from there again.

6. i can stay at home for days and feel totally fine with that. not a little bored also. i'm very much a home person.

7. i love my mom with all my heart, but i do tend to argue when there's disagreement between us. i just have to say what i have to say. sometimes, she felt that i have no respect for her, which is not true at all.

i have to tag another 7 person for this tag. i know most of the bloggers have done this, so i'm goin to tag my new blogger friends:

abby: mom and the city
SAHM mysays
teacher julie

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what pressure of driving??

i was on instant messenger with my brother the other day, and he was telling me how pressured he feel behind wheels. in the last two years he lives overseas, he got at least 3 speeding tickets and that's not all about it. he was charged in court for reckless driving, not mentioning the points deducted to his license.

driving here in malaysia is a total breeze. you can get unlucky with the police, if they caught you speeding, but they are often generous in letting you go provided it's minor offense. unlike the UK driving system, here, you hardly hear people get their license revoked.

but hey, do you know that http://www.uk-driving-secrets.com/ offers lots of loopholes where you can get away with the police. there are certain things that you can say or do to be let off the hook. policemen often go by the law, but that doesn't mean they are always right and we have absolutely in no position to defend ourselves. not even with the speed camera, images captured may not necessary be accurate. this is sure worth checking it out, bro.

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wakie wakie, mommy

aw..cannot believe myself. i got to bed at about 4am last night, and i'm now back blogging although my body seriously needs at least another 5 hours of sleep. my little darling woke me up, and i just to got entertain his royal command. he's the apple of my eye afterall.

a bath time after, he's now served breakfast by the maid. i slowly creped in the room, want to claim back my bed space back from my hubs who stretches out his legs and hands so wide, i almost have only the bed edge left to sleep on. so what am i doin here now?

i'm reserving some reviews so i can get back to work when i wakie wakie in an hour or two. alright. later!

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men, this isn't embarrasing afterall

this is something i will laugh about if i'm 15 year younger like some other silly kids in their teenage years. words like generic viagra and sex are grown up words, but for those who are just discovering themselves and their puberty, curiosity leads them to finding out more about sex. but often they got the false information because they are not properly educated on sensitive issues like that. what do you expect if your peers tell you not to kiss because you might get pregnant. silly enough.

but the truth is, many adults are not getting the right information about health issue like these, because they are either too shy to ask, or they didn't want to face the embarrassment. with the presence of the internet, people are now shying away from hoping straight into the clinic or blurt this out to their friends, they consult the 'online doctors for advice'.

especially when it comes to men, issue like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation are a big issue to their ego, internet comes handy for them to look for medical advice. but just make sure you get your information from a dependable source like 21menshealth.com, a site that dedicate specially to help men with their sensitive health issue.

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a memory span like an old maid

honestly, i thought i'm better than this. trust me, i have a blog diary i writes on who tags me, sites i visited and register, what's my register username and the password. i have an e-notebook with mircosoft onenote, i password protected it, just in case anybody wants a peek. but then, what's the point of keeping a blog diary when you don't keep it up to date? i thought i jotted those passwords down in my diary. i couldn't be that forgetful. i'll only be hitting my 30's in a couple of years time. old maid reciting..

thank goodness for password recovery software, i can re-access those long time forgotten files with Excel password recovery from http://www.password-studio.com/. It guarantees to work, or else. there shouldn't be ELSE, but for your peace of mind, you get your $75 refund. the big deal now is, buy before midnight tuesday and save $50. this is so worth the long forgotten password. recover any of your password protected files on microsoft office has never been this affordable.

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i could easily take him down!

hubs can be pretty annoying sometimes. i hate to be caught in a heated conversation with him, but when he got me that far, and vice versa, we're not letting each other off until every stone is turned. nah. blame it on different upbringing, me in a Christian family, while he was brought up in a non-Christian family. so yes, we have our differences, for we are only human for goodness sake! there's no such thing as a couple who are so perfect for each other, they finish off each other sentences. and if that is not enough, they never ever argue and is forever on lovey dovey mode.

i could do a find my inner guide plus increase faith self hypnosis from http://www.instant-hypnosis.com/ before i take him down in our spiritual conversation. he has the most ridiculous believe my ears have ever heard, the dead ones must be worship, especially if they are your parents. hello, as far as i'm concern, i will not worship another thing or human (worse still the dead) as long as i have breath in me. Self hypnosis is guarantee to work, i reckon hubs could just do the beat insomnia and get enough rest after a day's hard work.

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the best thing on the www is no longer email

dearest uncle came to our home today, he asked if i ever feel bored when the kids go to school, hubs and my eldest sister go to work, and i'm stranded home with two maids? i know i'll feel bored when my little boy starts his play school but for now i'm loving every second of his company. i told uncle i couldn't possibly be bored. i have my best friend, the computer and the internet.

my uncle has no idea internet has so much to offer these days. forget the time when email is the best thing that can happen on the www, now almost everything can be done online. internet gaming like online casino like Bret-casinos.com has a lot to offer for first timer who doesn't know a thing about online betting. it provides you with the best listing of reputable online casino with the best features for every kind of betting. roulette, blackjack or whatever there is you want to bet. you can even check out which online casino offers best payouts.

then there are blogs, maybe millions of them to read from, or write your own blog. believe me, before i have a blog, my world was dimly lit, and barely noticeable. but now, i have lots of amazing blogging friends to keep me going. we're here for each other on this www, always will.

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hubs, you're not alone now

good habit is hard to practice and bad habit seems to be the most natural thing to do. if i were to name a list of bad habits in this household, i might need a 10.000 word post. let's forget about that and get straight to me.

on some morning when my son yells for me and i have to drag myself up from bed, , i wished he could just leave me alone in my sweet dream. you see, he goes to bed at 8pm while i sleep earliest by 2 or 3 am. this is one of my bad habit i'm trying to get rid off. i'm trying to live a healthier lifestyle. but when i try to sleep earlier, i find myself lying there in bed for hours counting thousands of sheeps and sleep suddenly became an impossible thing to do. i thought hubs is the only person who needs insomnia cure until now. sigh.

shame on me, suddenly it hits me i'm a perfect candidate of sleep depreviation after reading http://www.sleep-deprivation-cd.com/. It sounds exactly like me, i didn't know 25% of the world's population suffers from insomnia. i need time to get back on track, what am i still doing here at 2am in front of the pc then?

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travel home safely during festive season

chinese new year celebration is just a month away, another year passes by in a blink of an eye. it's a time for celebration, with lots of gathering and lots of food. most people will take advantage over the long holidays, pack their bags and head home to their parents home.

every festive season, we see an alarming rate of road accidents despite the great effort of the police force to create road safety awareness to the public. it is heartbreaking to see how people got killed while traveling back to their home, a celebration turned into a mourning.

while reckless driving is the main culprit, more often than not, accidents happened when the drivers subconsciously dozed off behind the wheels. sounds scary but driving without 100% alertness has claimed many many lives over the decade. in some incidents, they victimised other car and their passengers on the road but they themselves got away unhurt. in that case, they will live with the guilt for the rest of their lives.

a very important advice is to ensure that the vehicle is in good condition before making a long distance trip. it is so scary to read in the papers on how vehicles that broke down by the side of the highway actually got rammed into and people got killed instantly.

do not take risk with imitation spare parts, it might be a lot cheaper but when it failed to perform, accidents can happen. Genuine parts like disc brake, Accord Radiator might be costly, but with a quipped with a no hassle lifetime warranty on parts and labor, it is worth every penny you paid for.

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oh no, a toaster again!

so this is a new year, and everyone is back to school, to work, to the paddy field in hope for a better future and a better life. holiday season is over, so is the annual family gathering and corporate annual dinner. so what did you got in that lucky draw? a toaster you so didn't want?

sometimes i wonder if those people in charge of getting the corporate gifts can come up with a true gifts people will adore. there are just so many promotional products that are available in the toaster budget, something people can be happy about and doesn't mind getting another one despite already having one.

like a branded watch. maybe not rolex, but at least a swiss army or a guess watch. perhaps some jewellery items, girls always love jewelleries, guys can present it to their loved ones. or why not consider digital accesories like camera or mp3 players?

stick to your budget, you can still get lovely gifts to make people happy.promotional items like a High Sierra Tahoe Multi-Function cost only $10.40 each. these things have become so affordable, i bet it beats getting a toaster right?

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this shouldn't be happenin on my new year wish

my new year didn't start very well. i somehow ended up havin a fight with my darlin hubs. only that my argument with him is a one way street kind of thing. he lets me burst out, say what i've been wantin to say forever, and he just kept quiet.

he always give me the silent treatment. fuckin all the time. i hate it. i so hate it. maybe it's not a fight afterall, because i was the only one on the verge of loosin all my anger on him. but still, i hope he will have somethin nice to say to me. but he's not the kind of person who has sweet words hangin by his lips. so as i expected, the typical him is still the same this brand new year.

God, if you cannot change him, give me unlimited amount of patience please. i totally could live like a patience goddess in exchange for his silent treatment.

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