Sharing boundaries

Call me a person with a very conservative mind, or simply selfish. But when it comes to my husband, I cannot see myself having such a big heart to see my hubs share a bowl of noodle soup with his lady friend, or giving her a free ride around town an entire day.

That's what happened to my husband's friend or what I've seen with my own eyes. Whatever you single ladies want to do, just stay away from married man. I mean, being friends is fine, but not cross the sharing boundary like sharing soup for crying out loud.

You can pretend nothing happened when you share a residency home together at Apogee Condo South Beach, totally oblivious to the existence of his wife or what? I totally disagree with having a lady friend so good, without the bad intention.

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The love of my life

Ever heard of the phrase " God wants us to meet a few wrong people, so when we met the right one, we'll know what a gift is". But when you're in a relationship break up dilemma, this can sound very ridiculous. I've been through that, so I know. 3 break ups in 2 years, I was in and out from a relationship to next with no time.

In such a state of emotional turmoil, I didn't realised rebound relationship made me such a mess. I was a nice girl, I still am but those ex boyfriends were either a playboy or a big time liar. I had to move on, so I had to leave them, because they made a fool out of me. But that doesn't mean my heart wasn't broken.

After all these bad relationship, I think I can qualify as a relationship consultant. As the saying goes, at last" I met the right one", he's truly a blessing in my life. He has been through his share of ugly relationships, that makes the both of us appreciate each other more. The space we need to give each other, the things we need to talk over, all makes our love stronger. Though he's the type of man with the most romantic ideas on earth nor he will ever write me a romantic love letter. But still, it's such a comfort to know that he cares a lot for us, me and our baby and he'll never leave us alone. That's all that matters.

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A gift that last forever

My eldest sister got a gold bracelet for the chinese Valentines day a few days back. That's what I call a great gift. No flowers, no chocolate and no artificial roses. Nothing beats a gold bracelet one can keep for life.

Ask any girl, chances are she might want a precious stone more than a whole lot of flowers you can find at the wholesale flowers market. I mean, what's the point of getting something that is sure going to last a few days? Afterall, a love gift should last forever not a week. And if I might add, diamonds are forever and so is gold. So this is a big lesson guys can learn. I bet your lover or girlfriend or even wife will thank me for saying this out loud.

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the man that matters

i dated many bastards, some cheated on me, some promised me romantic getaway to Mediterranean Europe with five star Malta Hotels suite and whatnot. those bastards ended up as my ex because i wasn't willing to give myself to them, so what did they do? one cheated right behind my back, went on vacation with a hot chick at some Cyprus Hotels while i was at home worried sick with his sudden disappearances. useless chicken.

i believe everything that happened in my life has a purpose, to make me stronger and brighter. everything is in God's hand, there's no way i can do things better with this brain that i have. i'm not the brightest person on earth. i was a young and naive girl, thank God, sweet talk just didn't appeal much to me. you know, they only want to get you to bed at the end of the day. .

i'm so thankful for my wonderful hubs. though he's not the most out-going person, romantic and richest man on earth, it doesn't matter. so whether or not we get to spend our holiday or honeymoon half way around the globe in one of the many fabulous Crete Hotels facing the Mediterranean Sea, munching smelly cheese and sipping red wine, i know he'll be there when i need him.that's all that matters to me.

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this shouldn't be happenin on my new year wish

my new year didn't start very well. i somehow ended up havin a fight with my darlin hubs. only that my argument with him is a one way street kind of thing. he lets me burst out, say what i've been wantin to say forever, and he just kept quiet.

he always give me the silent treatment. fuckin all the time. i hate it. i so hate it. maybe it's not a fight afterall, because i was the only one on the verge of loosin all my anger on him. but still, i hope he will have somethin nice to say to me. but he's not the kind of person who has sweet words hangin by his lips. so as i expected, the typical him is still the same this brand new year.

God, if you cannot change him, give me unlimited amount of patience please. i totally could live like a patience goddess in exchange for his silent treatment.

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