healthiest kinda relationship

married to a typical chinese man, i think i can make use of these lines below:

the healthiest relationships are not those that are free of conflicts or full of conflicts, but where those involved know how to resolve their occasional conflicts without destroyin each other. they know how to turn their barriers into bridges and make up with one another without tearin the relationship apart.

avoid the tendency to get even with one another during a conflict because people usually get at odds with each other whenever they try to get even.

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